Self-discipline is the highest form of self-love. Constantly working on yourself, upgrading yourself, just because of you trust you can achieve anything your set your mind on. That, my friend, is more satisfying than any outside validation.
Send your wife out for an hour, I’m coming round to grind on your cock in these knickers, then I want you to cum inside me. Then once she’s back, make her wear them as a reminder for the rest of the day.