Your girlfriend is extremely strict with your release day. Once she takes off the cage, you cannot get hard until she allows it. Even if she touches it, or gets naked, you cannot get excited. If you fail, your release is cancelled until next time..
On weekends, I go out to my balcony to wash the windows in my underpants, it turns me on to flirt with the neighbors opposite. Especially if they are a couple, but still one of them wants me