When my girlfriend went to college in the USA for her master's. She cheated on me in the first week but after talking it out we agreed that she could fuck whoever as long as she told me that she was going to do it.
These days the girly looks and the cage were just part of the normal attire your mistress expected of you, however the leaking in the cage that was constant, was punishable by a whip, cane, or longer sentence. It all depended on her mood.