The tight purple ropes should be enough to keep me in line, but you're always free to take control of that little handle bulging out if you need more control
My gf(19) and I have been together for 3 and half years & she finally started cheating on me with a 35yo guy. they meet regularly and make out, he plays with her boobs, grabes her ass & for the first time he fingered her pussy and she jerked him