I made a burger brisket because they wouldn't separate even after me smackin the packaging on the counter like a mad woman. STILL taking ages to separate lol.
I [F] just wanted to drop you an image of my little guy [M] in his happy place between my thighs. Don't give up hope. Gentle/Mommy Dommes exist and/or may be cultivated. Know what you want and seek it, craft it.